Ataraxis Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 So, with a lot of people in town and dropping in to visit lately, I was wondering what everyone thought was an appropriate amount of time for visitors to stay. In my opinion, it varies depending on how far away they came from. If visiting takes no more time than their daily commute, honestly, like 2-4 hours is probably enough. More if it's actually enjoyable. If it takes them half a day to get here, I'm good with a 3 day stay. If they had to fly, hell, a solid week is okay by me. Maybe more. My uncle used to say that company is a lot like fish: after three days they start to smell the same. Most of the time this applies pretty well. How do y'all feel about visiting etiquette? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 My dad usually drives about 3 hours and stays for 2 days. That's a good time I feel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless Crackhead Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 If I visit on a road trip, I usually don't stay more than the day unless we end up going deep on the evening. I generally don't like to make a burden out of myself, so I also do shit like clean up people's pads, fix shit; or in Niji's case, demand free liquor at gunpoint. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ataraxis Posted August 13, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 so I also do shit like clean up people's pads My aunt does that and it pisses me off pretty heavily, tbh. I mean clean up after yourself yeah but leave my mess alone. Not sure how far you go with it. I guess this topic can also be about things like this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless Crackhead Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 I usually party when I visit ppl. So I clean up the party mess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exorcet Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 I live 4 hours from some people ExorcetI come for 3 day weekends EXXON HAS NEGATED YOUR TOPIC CHAT WISDOM Biggest thing though is probably have a reason to be there. Like I know one person who is hyper-desperate-let's-hang-out-all-the-time, but never suggests things to do. So I try to never hang out. Also I hate it when people mess with my stuff too. Because it always makes things worse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Talentless Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 Chris McKibbin usually spends the night and is on his way by morning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YUNG MASTERLESS GLENCOUR Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 My aunt does that and it pisses me off pretty heavily, tbh. I mean clean up after yourself yeah but leave my mess alone. Not sure how far you go with it. yeah that shit drives me nuts too honestly I don't like ppl being here unless i enjoy their company regardless of distance but that's cuz I'm kind of a hateful guy with regard to people in the general sense i hate everyone mostly if you're entertaining me then u can stay awhile, just that uhhh the ability to entertain becomes harder as time goes by...sorta like if ur doing an endurance race visiting me is like running a marathon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nomrah Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 visiting me is like running a marathonhad to quote Anyways I don't visit or have visitors that often at all, but as soon as people stop finding things to entertain each other with its time to call it a day, it's painfully easy to spot that lull in the action. Also I always hated waking up at a friends house, I'm always the first one awake, other dudes still zonked out, and I'm left there for a good moment wondering what the fuck now? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YUNG MASTERLESS GLENCOUR Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 just get up and do you fuck it you might just gotta get used to the idea is all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless Crackhead Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 i hate everyone mostly http://i2.minus.com/jtS9vSrCB3Led.jpg We are kindred spirits you and I. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nomrah Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 (edited) just get up and do you fuck it you might just gotta get used to the idea is all Yeah I usually start by trying to figure out their television/entertainment system remote setup, that can be a bitch as well haha, too early in the morning for that! Edited August 13, 2014 by Nomrah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YUNG MASTERLESS GLENCOUR Posted August 13, 2014 Report Share Posted August 13, 2014 yeah for reals hahahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ataraxis Posted August 14, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 honestly I don't like ppl being here unless i enjoy their company regardless of distance but that's cuz I'm kind of a hateful guy with regard to people in the general sense i hate everyone mostly if you're entertaining me then u can stay awhile, just that uhhh the ability to entertain becomes harder as time goes by...sorta like if ur doing an endurance race visiting me is like running a marathon That pretty much sums it up for me, as well. I brought this up because I wasn't sure if I should feel bad about thinking my visitors were stupid for not realizing they were overstaying their welcome (my sister lives 20 minutes out and visits for like 8 hours; we had family in town for 10 days and it's a six hour drive for them - and they were here like a month ago - and the rest of the family was out to see them like two weeks ago, haha holy fuck that sounds dumb no matter how I spin it). At a certain point "Hey glad to see ya!" just turned into resentment and "omg pls go." Also they fuck around with the order of my fridge, leave stuff out, and mess up my bathroom. Like, if I got three areas of sacred ground they're: Bedroom, bathroom, fridge. I mean really, what reason could you have for leaving out ice cream. "Oh, I thought someone else might want some." Well fuck no one is gonna want any if it's soup, put that shit back in the freezer you mook. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless Crackhead Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 I like 2/4 of my sisters. And only one of them in very short-exposures. So really 1/4. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUMERIAN BLOOD GOD Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 Last person that hung out at my place stayed for a few weeks. I did not mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YUNG MASTERLESS GLENCOUR Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 I brought this up because I wasn't sure if I should feel bad about thinking my visitors were stupid for not realizing they were overstaying their welcome its not you its them fuck them sometimes you just have to be upfront with ppl if they don't want to show you any manners/respect nah john having someone as a roommate and having someone visit are 2 totally different things 1 requires you allowing someone to live in general vicinity the other requires you actively acknowledge their presence Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless Crackhead Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 Last person that hung out at my place stayed for a few weeks. I did not mind. If it was a qt gril who be sucking your dick, I would hope not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YUNG MASTERLESS GLENCOUR Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 that too its another issue if ur boning her down all the time or its like, ur brother visiting from idk some other city best way I can put it is that I've had lots of roommates that I got along with fine as roommates, but I'd never in a million years be friends with it's the same thing here imo its easy to exist around someone its hard to engage with said person, lot more factors involved that way, mainly do they make u mad or not everyone makes me mad so it is what it is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless Crackhead Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 http://i.minus.com/ibq1BclPyRfIst.gif Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YUNG MASTERLESS GLENCOUR Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 sure there is im trying to chill at my home and this fucking goon is still here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless Crackhead Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 http://i3.minus.com/jbuBL3rVCtByjq.jpg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUMERIAN BLOOD GOD Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 If it was a qt gril who be sucking your dick, I would hope not. ding ding Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless Crackhead Posted August 14, 2014 Report Share Posted August 14, 2014 ding ding http://i.minus.com/izVJqniPQ290F.gif Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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